Starlight Lounge

+ Must be 18+ with VRC age verified tag + Must know someone who can vouch for you to join + Dont be a dick‚ use common sense + No mini modding‚ find a mod if you have issues + Don't block / mute the mods so they can communicate with you + Don't send random invites‚ talk to people and ask + Your drama isnt our drama‚ use the block button Failure to read rules will result in kink shaming then a swift kick CONSENT IS KEY [credit to Hot n' ready] Consent is Freely Given‚ Reversible‚ Informed‚ Enthusiastic‚ Specific‚ and Ongoing. We want a "yesǃ"not the absence of a no. In this group‚ we define consent as: Informed: Everyone involved understands what they're agreeing to. That means being honest‚ communicating clearly‚ and making sure expectations are aligned. No surprises‚ no manipulation. Freely Given: Consent must be freely given. No pressure‚ guilt-tripping‚ coercion‚ or power plays. If someone feels like they have to say yes‚ its not consent. Reversible: Consent can be changed or withdrawn at any time. Someone can say yes and then change their mind even in the middle of something. And that's okay. Stop means stop. Enthusiastic: Yeah‚ sure‚ I guess I'snt the vibe. We want clear‚ enthusiastic yeses. If someones unsure‚ confused‚ or hesitant its a no. Specific: Consent to one act doesn't mean consent to everything. Saying yes to flirting doesn't mean saying yes to other things. Saying yes to one person doesn't mean saying yes to everyone. Ongoing: Consent isn't a one-time thing. Keep checking in. Keep communicating. What was okay five minutes ago might not be okay now and that's valid. Sober: Real talk if someones too drunk‚ high‚ or otherwise impaired‚ they cant give valid consent. We dont mess with gray areas.